I’ve been challenged by recent events to go way, way out on
a limb- putting myself out to the wolves, and giving all my heart to write how
I feel about this constructively.
We can’t “all get along”- if neither group is willing to
grow up.
When it comes to being a Christian, there is an extremely
growing misconception that you cannot
love a Homosexual. (Or any other type of Sinner. Someone who commits adultery,
someone who steals, someone who murders, someone who lies….you get it, right?)
In fact, Homosexuals and those that support them- call
Christians “Close-minded”- because they feel they aren’t being loved, and
accepted with open arms.
It’s easy to see why Homosexuals would feel this way.
(Again, or any other group that feels that they’re being ganged up on or
treated unfairly). Especially those who
see themselves as practicing Christians.
So here my friend is the kicker. The Truth.
God loves Homosexuals…and you, whoever you are…should love
them, too. After all, at the end of the day… “We’re all made the same on the
inside”- right?
But I’m here to tell you, you cannot know the Word of God-
and practice any sin, and get through Christ’s judgment untouched and be passed
through the pearly gates into Heaven.
This is for all Sinners (Yes,
even those of you who are homosexuals. Even
those of you who told a “little white lie” to your friend the other day. Even those of you who got hammered at a party
last night. Those of you who stomped the
streets shouting that God Hates Homosexuals.)
God’s Word is the same, through and through- no matter how
you weave your way in and out of it.
God is Love, yes. He absolutely is! And that’s one of the
wonderful things of accepting Him as your Lord and Savior.
But He is so much more than that. He’s a loving, forgiving,
all-knowing God. And within that Love comes and understanding that when you
misbehave, like any child under a Parent’s care, you are disciplined.
Here, “misbehaving” is sinning, a sin of any kind- in case you misinterpreted
that. “Disciplined” is referring to not being able to enjoy the gift of Eternal
Life when it’s time.
I’m not sure how our World has twisted these issues so much
that it’s made everyone turn against each other. Being down right mean , even. (OK, wait. I do know how. Devil, much?)
You can love a Sinner without accepting their sin.
You can be a Homosexual – acknowledging that the Bible is
completely clear on that lifestyle-and get along just fine with a Christian (or
anyone else who doesn’t support the lifestyle).
You can be a
Christian- and love a Sinner harder than you’ve loved anyone, acknowledging
that you cannot condone their lifestyle.
We aren’t ever going to be able to please everyone in everything we do. We aren’t going to be able to clearly express
what we mean or how we feel all of the time. We’re humans. Some of us are
striving for different things. Some of us believe in the Lord & others
don’t.
But at the end of the Day- we really can love each other, despite differences.
Don’t hate. Never hate.
And don’t take someone not accepting your lifestyle, as
being hated as a human being.
Don’t get it twisted and create huge issues that don’t need
to be there. Nowhere does it say that as a Christian, you have to show your
lack of support towards a sinful lifestyle by being a jerk towards that person.
And, no one ever said that as a Sinner, you're entitled to everyone accepting your lifestyle. (You don’t have to be jerks, either!)
God loves
everyone. EVERYONE. So much. He wouldn’t have sent His only Son to die
for our sins- if He didn’t. (But…there *are*
sins. Remember that reason as to why
Jesus died on the Cross? Fortunately, there is always a way out. Forgiveness.)
I hope you don’t misunderstand me on this. I really hope you
don’t fly off the handle, bad mouthing me about my beliefs or convictions- not
everyone sees things the same way, and my point is….that’s OK. It’s expected.
But there is no reason to blast someone for it.
However, if you choose to be upset or disagree with me or "unfriend"me...that's OK too. :)
3 comments:
I think your post is wonderful!
I have the same view on the subject, but it's so hard for other people to see.
One of my best friends is gay, and I love him dearly. Honestly, I don't think I would have made it through high school without him. He knows my views and is respectful of them and I respect his decision to be who he chooses to be as well. I could never hate him or feel anything other than love for him. I do not approve of his lifestyle choice, but who am I to judge? He is choosing to be happy in whatever way he sees fit for his life. I believe everyone should be happy. And seriously, I wish I could be half as happy as he is. But we have boundaries on our relationship and it works really well for us.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts =] I really enjoyed the read.
totally agree. and i think you said it well!! "love the sinner, hate the sin," is what my mom always taught me that God wanted us to do. so amen!
Well, I guess this is one of the main reasons why I "dropped out" on bein a christian. All that talk about sins and sinners. I can't and I won't see homosexuality as a sin. It's not a SIN to love someone, doesn't matter if you love someone of the same sex as you. In my eyes, that doesn't even come close to a sin. And hey, two of my siblings are not baptised, and I would rather be damned than go to a heaven that wouldn't let them in.... All of this judgement, not only from christians, but also from God - I just can't come to peace with that. It makes my heart hurt to think about it....
I DO think it's great that you are so open with all of this. That you write about this at all. It's a topic that hits close to home for a lot of us. Thanks for sharing!
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